This week I have taken on a new project. As I have written earlier heroin has become very prevalent in our middle class society. My family and myself are volunteering our time and energy to try to help a young man escape from its clutches. As it is known I have been raising my Granddaughter for the last 10½ years, because my son and his wife are crack addicts. This had to be a family decision, because it would affect all of us. Luckily everyone agreed that it would be worth the effort.
My nephew who is 24 years old and my sister’s only child is facing twenty years in prison if he doesn’t kick the habit. For an addict that doesn’t seem to be enough incentive, he has not been able to stay away from heroin for a two-week time frame. So the offer I made was to be his shadow for a six week time period to start with and to go from there.
These are the rules that have been agreed to:
He had to move out of my sister’s 4400 square foot house and move in with us an 800 square foot house. No more privacy. He sleeps on my couch in the living room and I sleep on the love seat.
He had to give up all driving privileges I would be taking him everywhere he went, therefore he would never be alone.
Thankfully he agreed to it. We are only into our first week and not even into the hard part yet, but I take him to all his court appointments, probation meetings, AA or NA meetings, Doctor appointments and watch him go in and sit in the parking lot until he comes out. Sleeping on the love seat I know when he gets phone calls, if he gets up and anything else that might enter into the picture. I am thankful that so far he has been very open and honest with me and is accepting me so far as being his shadow. We both know that we will get frustrated with one another and at times he will hate me but that’s okay if he can live a life a better life.
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