Another Week of Challenges

Things seem to be going pretty well with my nephew. He is still straight 97 days today and starting to enjoy life. He stays very very busy, he is still going to 6 meetings per week working 2 jobs, yet he is still staying in contact with me and having fun once a week he and my daughter do something this week it was beach volley ball. I am very proud of him.

The girl and her 5 kids that is living with me is starting to look for apartments or a house for rent FIA is going to help her with the security deposit and first months rent.

Now for added excitement I just heard from my granddaughter’s (the one that I am raising) mother. It has been 10 ½ years since my granddaughter has lived with her and well over 6 years since she has had any contact with her and that contact wasn’t her mother’s choice, has decided she is going to petition the court for parenting time. Yet there was a twist in the letter I received. I have the choice to adopt my granddaughter and terminate her Mother’s (and I use that term loosely) parental rights or she is going to petition the court. Now mind you I have custody of my granddaughter until she is 18 with no visitation from her parents. However, since I am receiving assistance from the state for my granddaughter, her mother is required to pay child support. The last 3 months I have been receiving child support. I am pretty sure she is expecting me to adopt my granddaughter. I look at it this way she lives 100 miles away, not to mention that if she still is working, weekends are her drug and sex time. How many times do you think she is going to make the trip, my guess is not many. Oh yes, I got letter on June 30th and I have until July 4th to make up my mind and answer her.

I love the fact that not to do anything is a choice, and that is the choice I am making. I heard from her about 2 years ago I had received child support for a month or two and she wanted me to terminate her parental rights, the reason for that was she loved my granddaughter very much but child support was too expensive.

We will have to wait to see where this one goes. I just hope my granddaughter doesn’t end up the loser.