We are currently on day 40 of being clean and sober. I am very proud of my nephew he has had to work very hard to get here and the fact he refuses to go through these 40 days again makes me incredibly happy.
My 20 year old daughter on the other hand although she is no longer drinking daily, she is still drinking and in a very bad relationship that gives her all the excuses to drink. I look at the people my children are attracted and I realize what a huge role my attitudes towards relationships have had on the partners my children are choosing. I was always the peace make trying not to make waves while my partners did everything they could to create chaos. As I watch my children they are attracted to the same chaotic relationships, continually trying to keep the peace and no peace can be found.
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